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As parents, we've all been there before: maybe it's potty training or trying to get your child dressed in time for school. Perhaps you've offered a little treat—a sticker, a cookie or a trinket—for motivation. But what's an appropriate reward? And are we raising kids with a sense of entitlement?
While motivating children with incentives of money, toys or even a special activity can be very effective, some experts believe this prevents youngsters from developing their own sense of responsibility. Alfie Kohn, author of "Punished by Rewards," believes that giving incentives—even nonmaterial ones—only serves to control youngsters. "While dangling extra TV, ice cream or story time in front of a child asks less of us," Kohn says, "it can never get anything more than temporary obedience—and it buys even that at terrific cost."
But not all experts agree. According to Dr. Virginia Shiller, a psychologist and instructor at the Yale Child Study Center and coauthor of the book Rewards for Kids, rewards can help parents teach their children new habits. Shiller says the key is in how the incentives are given; in setting appropriate, realistic goals; and in figuring out a strategy to achieve them. "I was inspired to write this book by my own parenting experience, and I'm happy to say my sons—now in their late 20s—are very responsible people," says Shiller. "This is not purely behavioral modification. I'm much bigger on using it as a learning opportunity."
Whether or not to offer rewards is a personal decision. As the creator of this app, I believe the information provided in this "Parent" section of the app should be read and incorporated when using this app within any rewards program for children.
Founded : 2017
Developer : Leah McJilton
REWARDING : Kids can begin to understand the concept of a reward around age three. Developmental age is just as important as chronological age. The main thing is that toddlers are past the stage in which they are locked into oppositional battles ("No! I don't want ice cream!").Make rewards fairly immediate. Younger kids may need more immediate goals, while older kids can understand working toward longer-term rewards. Incentives can be small, and they don't need to be money or a toy. Even a trip to the library or park can be a treat.Set realistic, specific goals. Don't try to change too many things at once. If you try to work on getting to school on time, being nice to siblings and cleaning up toys all at once, that's too much. It's better to target just one or two actions in a particular chart.Help your children reach their goals. Work with them to figure out how they're going to achieve their goals. "If it's a chart about getting out of the house in the morning, and they think, 'I could find my shoes in the evening instead of a last-minute search for shoes,' then they're actually learning a strategy," says Shiller. And don't forget to take the opportunity to praise your child!
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